I want to know what is going on between us. Why must our Fertile friends not tell us, Infertiles, to our face but put on a Facebook and Myspace status that they are pregnant? Just because they think we won't be happy for them or it'll upset us? Yes it does upset us but we are HAPPY FOR YOU. We will feel that huge amount of sadness at first, then be happy for you. Just because we have been trying years for our 1st and you find out your pregnant with your like 3rd or whatnot, does not mean you can not tell us. We are suppose to your friend. And to me, by not telling us directly, it seems as if you don't care about our feelings as much as you say you do. I can see how a Fertile telling an Infertile that she is pregnant would be very tough, but as a friend, you should do it anyway.
No comments:
Post a Comment