IVF Our Only Option....

So we went to out Appt today and found out why I haven't gotten pregnant. His sperm is only 1% good.. I also have MTHFR Disease (Methylenetetrahydrofolate Reductase), it's a blood Disease, causes Miscarriages and blood clots. IVF is our only option to conceive, he said we have a 1% of getting pregnant on our own, and I have to get pregnant, and if I get pregnant with the ab-normal sperm, I will just miscarry. I'm really glad we found all this out, I just can't believe we actually have real Infertility. I never thought this would happen to us...It breaks my heart, I just can not believe IVF is our only option. Even though we have a 1% of conceiving on our own, we are still TTC, and not giving up. Since we can't afford IVF, because they want it ALL up front, we are just gonna try and get Tri Care to pay for it. Even though I know there is a like a 2 year waiting list, and we can't wait any longer, we have to get pregnant asap, because his sperm is gonna get worse, and then he will have NONE. So hopefully we can just skip the waiting list.. we'll see I guess. This is just a total shock to us.. we just thought it was me because the Endometriosis, But obviously not... We are just both so torn up... I really can not believe this...I never thought we were suffer from Infertility. I'm just praying with everything I am, we can at least have 1 kid of our own. My Infertility Dr also said once I do get pregnant I will get a shot everyday til I'm 12 weeks pregnant to keep me from miscarrying. Sigh... Please pray for us, we are going through a very very tough time. Thank you ladies.